A Dreamy Midlands Wedding: Melissa and Ruan's Emotional and Epic Celebration

Melissa & Ruan — where do I even begin? After eight years together and many long-distance stretches with Ruan working offshore, these two finally said “I do” at Haycroft Farm in one of KwaZulu-Natal’s most breathtaking wedding venues — the heart of the Midlands Meander.

As a KZN wedding photographer, I’ve seen a lot of beautiful weddings, but this one? It had everything — raw emotion, golden hour magic, dramatic gowns, and a couple so deeply connected that their joy was absolutely contagious.

Why Johannesburg Couples Love Getting Married in the Midlands

Many Johannesburg couples are choosing the KwaZulu-Natal Midlands for their wedding, and it’s easy to see why. The Midlands offers a perfect blend of natural beauty, exclusive venues, and that destination-wedding feel without having to leave South Africa.

From rolling hills and glassy dams to cozy chapels and expansive farm-style venues, the Midlands is home to some of South Africa’s most sought-after wedding venues. And when you add in the crisp country air and golden hour light? You have the recipe for wedding magic.

The Wedding: Wild Flowers, Golden Light & All the Feels

Melissa & Ruan’s celebration was held at one of the Midlands’ luxury wedding venues, and the setup was out. of. this. world. The team at Labola brought a floral fantasy to life — think vibrant colours, wild textures, and sculptural arrangements that turned every corner into a piece of art.

The weather had been gloomy for days, but just in time for the big moment, the sun broke through. And when it hit the dry winter grass at golden hour, the entire landscape looked like it had caught fire — in the best, most cinematic way.

Their ceremony in the intimate chapel was emotional and perfectly matched Melissa’s dramatic custom Hanrie Lues bridal gown. She wanted something that made a statement, and this dress delivered. And Ruan? He felt all the feels the second Melissa walked down that aisle — tears, gasps, everything.

A Reception to Remember

The celebration continued with canopies set up by the dam, heartfelt speeches, and a first dance that brought the drama — we’re talking smoke machines, lights, and all the cinematic vibes you could dream of.

And in one of the most iconic groom quotes ever, Ruan declared:

“Melissa is now… MY WIFE.”

(Yes, in a Borat voice. Yes, it was legendary.)

Why Booking a Local KZN Photographer Matters

If you’re planning a Midlands wedding from Johannesburg, choosing a local KZN wedding photographer can make all the difference. Here’s why:

• I know the venues, the light, and the weather patterns — so we’ll make the most of every photo opportunity.

• I help couples with timelines that suit the Midlands’ golden hour, ensuring breathtaking portraits like the ones from Melissa & Ruan’s day.

• I offer engagement shoots, venue walkthroughs, and planning support to help make the experience seamless from a distance.

Better yet? Many of my couples choose to book their engagement session with me too. This gives us a chance to connect before the big day and ensures your wedding photos feel natural and relaxed. (Check out our blog on what to wear for your engagement shoot for tips on coordinating outfits and feeling confident in front of the camera.)

Final Thoughts

Melissa & Ruan’s Midlands wedding was filled with bold details, deep emotion, and unforgettable energy — the kind of celebration that reminds me why I love being a wedding photographer in KZN.

If you’re based in Johannesburg and looking for a venue that offers scenic beauty, exclusive charm, and an easy getaway feel, the KZN Midlands might just be your perfect wedding destination.

And if you’re looking for someone to tell your story authentically, in every moment from laughter to happy tears — I’d love to be part of it.

Dress @hanrieluesbridal

Decorw and flowers @labolasa

Makeup @diosgracia_mua_aesthetics

Hair @hair_by_nikiki_

Dj @djjay23

Food @hamblinscatering

Videography @lighthousefilms_

Cake @mixies_cake_deco

Bridesmaids dresses @che.couture